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STAY OUT OF MY LANE

This is a post that I wrote for my church blog. Enjoy it here, too. A blog post about loving and understanding our unique gifts and submitting those qualities to…

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May 19, 2020
FAMILY, Marriage, Parenting, Parenting Boys

WHAT SHOULD THE PARENTS OF THE GROOM EXPECT TO PAY FOR?

Your son has let you know that he is getting married. Now what? What should you, as the parents of the groom, expect to pay for in the upcoming nuptials?…

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February 15, 2021
Health, LIFESTYLE

KETO DIET: before and after

MY 2020 WEIGHT LOSS JOURNEY SELF-IMAGE: before and after images Now that I am in my forties, maintaining my weight and health seem to be a difficult, if not unobtainable,…

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March 21, 2020
Photography, Uncategorized, WORK

OUR OREGON PHOTO SHOOT

I had a big vision for doing a sexy photo shoot at Cannon Beach in Oregon. I paid to fly every bit of my camera equipment out with me and…

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February 22, 2021
FAMILY, MY DESTINATIONS, Parenting Boys

OUR FIRST CRUISE TO THE BAHAMAS

OUR FAMILY VACATION TO THE BAHAMAS I have discovered that any vacation on or near water is my kind of vacation. So, this vacation did not disappoint especially since it…

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September 23, 2019
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    THE JOHNSON PROJECT

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    THE LAKE HOUSE REMODEL: This particular client found out about me through word of mouth. The wife was working out with her trainer and had mentioned that she wanted to hire a designer to design a remodel for her basement. We met in 2016 and ended up remodeling her basement in 2020. This is a typical scenario for our area–maybe everywhere. Who knows? Clients get an stir to remodel and then life circumstances change their timeline or budget. This couple lived a pretty busy lifestyle, traveling for work and with adult children living in different states. They thought that they…

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    STAY OUT OF MY LANE

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    This is a post that I wrote for my church blog. Enjoy it here, too. A blog post about loving and understanding our unique gifts and submitting those qualities to the Lord so that his will shall be done through you in your own unique way. I have taken up jogging. I am not a “jogger” by any means. It is the hardest form of exercise that I do. I cannot seem to find the right cadence in stride or breathing to go for any decent distance. But, I do my best. My starting goal is three miles of jogging…

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    I NEVER UNDERSTOOD WHY WOMEN HAD AFFAIRS UNTIL I MARRIED MY HUSBAND

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    I had been single for three years, coming out of a thirteen year long marriage to a very abusive man. My ex-husband and I had been in counseling for nearly the whole duration of our marriage seeing no less than eleven different therapists of varying genres during that time. I thought that I had learned everything that I needed to know about relationships and communication to embark on a new, healthy and successful relationship. One thing I realized was that I never understood why women had affairs until I married my current husband. And, looking back, I would say that…

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    MY 2020 WEIGHT LOSS JOURNEY SELF-IMAGE: before and after images Now that I am in my forties, maintaining my weight and health seem to be a difficult, if not unobtainable, goal. The most success that I have had with my weight has been when I lived a Ketogenic lifestyle. Being a woman in her forties, this is my journey with a Keto diet, from start to finish. If I had my way, the following images would be my actual before and after images. I did a little Photoshopping to show you what I don’t like about my body and how…

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    Driving a rental car in Europe is not as difficult or intimidating as I had thought. When we took our trip to France, I knew that I had no idea when we would visit again and I wanted to see as much of Normandy as I could in our seven days there. The only way to do that was for us to have a car at our disposal. And, I am so grateful that we did! It freed us up to take back roads through France, eat in local restaurants that were not within walking distance to our hotel and…

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    5 THINGS YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT HEALTH AND WEIGHT LOSS IN YOUR FORTIES

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    Right when life is supposed to start getting blissful our bodies start to change and morph into this thing that we do not recognize. I have been focusing on 5 things you need to know about health and weight loss in your forties. Especially as women, we are entering a time of changing hormones and, consequently, changing emotions. Therefore, we need to pay extra attention to our mental and physical well-being during this time. To start, it ain’t easy! It is hard enough to balance the shifts in lifestyle and family dynamics, let alone a shifting body. As I am…

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This is my attempt at sort of 'starting new' on my This is my attempt at sort of 'starting new' on my Instagram. I took a four month break from social media to grieve after my step son completed suicide. Being on social media with happy smiles did not represent where we were in life. So, it was better to just take some time away.⁣
It feels like I have to 'cleanse the palate' to jump back in. As if to announce, I have been depressed for several months, but--hey--I am coming out of that (at least I am trying to); As if I have to have a distinct mark between the old me and the new me. #suicideawareness #militarysuicide #deathofachild
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This is my attempt at sort of 'starting new' on my This is my attempt at sort of 'starting new' on my Instagram. I took a four month break from social media to grieve after my step son completed suicide. Being on social media with happy smiles did not represent where we were in life. So, it was better to just take some time away.⁣
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It feels like I have to 'cleanse the palate' to jump back in. As if to announce, I have been depressed for several months, but--hey--I am coming out of that (at least I am trying to); As if I have to have a distinct mark between the old me and the new me.
It has been four months of healing. And part of th It has been four months of healing. And part of that process has been to hide away. How do you smile and post happy snippets when such a heaviness has fallen on your family? Social media held no fascination for me.But, as part of my healing, I promised myself to talk about it; Post about it and start to move out of the darkness.If you are interested in reading about our experience, I have links in my bio. Or, do you have any experience with suicide or military suicide? Tell me about it. Tell me how you got through it. #suicide⁣
#depressed #militarysuicide #itisforever #deathisfinal
My husband lost his only biological son to a milit My husband lost his only biological son to a military suicide.⁣
There is not much to add to that.⁣
It is heavy and nearly impossible to carry.⁣
We have hidden away for four months, processing the unbelievable and trying to heal the very best that we can...trying to get to know the new "us".⁣
And, I think that I am ready to get back onto social media. Maybe.⁣
If you are processing grief--any grief--it is okay to not be okay for however long you need to be.⁣
There is no timeline on healing from an overwhelming loss.⁣
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#dad #suicide #heal #helpme #stronger
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